Sunday, September 23, 2012

50 Rules - Part 3

36. Few things in life are more comforting to a crying little girl than her father’s hand. Never forget this.--------so true. Just being with my dad made me feel safe like nothing could go wrong.

37. Introduce her to the swings at your local park. She’ll squeal for you to push her higher and faster. Her definition of “higher and faster” is probably not the same as yours. Keep that in mind.-------I remember going to "muddy park" when I was little.

38. When she’s a bit older, your definition of higher and faster will be a lot closer to hers. When that day comes, go ahead… give it all you’ve got.------my dad's definition of higher and faster, hmmmmmmm?

39. Holding her upside down by the legs while she giggles and screams uncontrollably is great for your biceps. WARNING: She has no concept of muscle fatigue.------he never got tired of hearing "more, more!!"

40. She might ask you to buy her a pony on her birthday. Unless you live on a farm, do not buy her a pony on her birthday. It’s OK to rent one though.-------ha! He never bought me a pony as much as I begged for a horse but he did pay for my riding lessons for many many years.

41. Take it easy on the presents for her birthday and Christmas. Instead, give her the gift of experiences you can share together.------I'm pretty sure I always had plenty of both.

42. Let her know she can always come home. No matter what.------I was always welcome. Especially since my dad's one of like three rules ever was don't live with someone before you are married.

43. Remember, just like a butterfly, she too will spread her wings and fly some day. Enjoy her caterpillar years.

44. Write her a handwritten letter every year on her birthday. Give them to her when she goes off to college, becomes a mother herself, or when you think she needs them most.

45. Learn to trust her. Gradually give her more freedom as she gets older. She will rise to the expectations you set for her.

46. When in doubt, trust your heart. She already does.

47. When your teenage daughter is upset, learning when to engage and when to back off will add years to YOUR life. If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

48. Ice cream covers over a multitude of sins. Know her favorite flavor.

49. This day is coming soon. There’s nothing you can do to be ready for it. The sooner you accept this fact, the easier it will be.

50. Today she’s walking down the driveway to get on the school bus. Tomorrow she’s going off to college. Don’t blink.

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